Probability E.L. catches COVID-19 from classmate: 0.50
Probability G.L. catches COVID-19 from E.L: 0.50 X 0.80 = 0.40
Probability Grandpa catches COVID-19 from G.L.: 0.40 X (1 - 0.60) = 0.16
So, there is about a 1 in 6 chance of an intact chain of transmission from E.L.'s classmate to E.L.'s Grandpa, via G.L. Not tremendously high, but outcomes with 1 in 6 odds happen all the time, as any sports fan can attest, and given the high risk of severe illness in immune compromised adults over age 65, most people would probably call this an unacceptable risk for Grandpa.
What if E.L. and G.L. were both fully vaccinated, though? The Pfizer-BioNTech vaccine had a reported efficacy of 90.7 percent against symptomatic disease in a randomized clinical trial of 5 to 11 year-old children; efficacy against asymptomatic transmission is uncertain, but for the sake of this scenario I will assume it's 80 percent. Let's run these calculations again, with the vaccine actions in bold.
Probability E.L. catches COVID-19 from classmate: 0.50 X (1 - 0.80)
Probability G.L. catches COVID-19 from E.L: 0.10 X 0.80 X (1 - 0.80) = 0.016
Probability Grandpa catches COVID-19 from G.L.: 0.016 X (1 - 0.60) = 0.0064
In this scenario, there is about a 1 in 156 chance of an intact chain of transmission from E.L.'s classmate to E.L.'s Grandpa, via G.L. 1 in 156 is better odds than winning the big prize in the lottery, but most people would feel pretty comfortable that an event this unlikely would not happen on any given day.
In summary, people who suggest that once Grandpa (or Grandma, or Great-Aunt Amy or other older people who are important to you or somebody else) is vaccinated and boosted, it's a "personal choice" for them and their children to get vaccinated too, are demonstrating ignorance of math and public health. We will only get through this pandemic by breaking the transmission chain together, not with 1 in 5 American adults declining vaccinations for themselves and their children because they don't think they will get very sick or that their inaction could quite possibly lead to someone else's disability or death - maybe even someone they love. I wish that every person with access to vaccination would just do the right thing and mandates wouldn't be necessary, but the declaration "I'm pro-vaccine but anti-mandate" is a non sequitur. If you're really pro-vaccine, you want everyone to get vaccinated whether they like it or not, for the good of your community and country and the whole human race.